“Without consultation, plans are frustrated, but with many counselors they succeed” (Proverbs 15:22).
You have had life-experiences that I haven’t and vice versa. In facing the adversities and demands of everyday life we need not think we are alone or plowing new ground. Others have been there before and, in the routine of the day, it’s these that God brings across our path. Wisdom comes in wide-counsel. Don’t be afraid to ask.