“Without consultation, plans are frustrated, but with many counselors they succeed” (Proverbs 15:22).
You have had life-experiences that I haven’t and vice versa. In facing the adversities and demands of everyday life we need not think we are alone or plowing new ground. Others have been there before, and it’s these varied experiences that God brings across our path each day. Wisdom comes in wide-counsel. Don’t be afraid to ask.